Friendships go through seasons that make it grow strong. Acceptance, Time and Flexibility will help its roots become solid. Here's what it looks like:
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Acceptance - I appreciate how God made you and I accept you for who you are. I will do whatever it takes to keep a healthy friendship with you. I appreciate your personality, no matter how strong willed or easy going you are. I enjoy hearing about your life theories: they are different than mine and they have helped you live your life to the fullest. I affirm you as a friend and I am blessed to have you in my life.
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Time - I make time for you. I work around your schedule. I use technology to keep in touch with you but the real test comes
when we see face-to-face. We find time to connect and my whole attention goes to what you have to share. Time is the most precious asset I give you because I can never get it back. I choose to invest my time in you.
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Flexibility - I yield to the ups and downs of life and its different seasons. I understand that a strong root system must go through different seasons: the newness of Spring, the joy of Summer, the beauty of Fall and the harshness of winter. I treasure our friendship and I choose to be understanding of the seasons and times we will go through as friends.
I pray that the foundation of your friendships is strong. If not, I challenge you to use these 3 tools to strengthen your relationships with your friends.
QUESTION: How can you use Acceptance, Time and Flexibility in your friendships?